men are amazing don't listen to 'em
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haha oh wait, did not mean: "don't listen to men" meant: don't listen to *otherwise*
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leaving as is bc now I think the ambiguity is hilarious but anyway I've interacted with too many men recently who have internalized and been harmed by a "men are bad" meme and it's awful
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I think they sometimes don't even know how they're attractive


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Replying to @lisatomic5
Sadly this is less "sometimes" and more "normally"
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Replying to @GeniesLoki @lisatomic5
Do you think being bi has helped you see yourself as more attractive?
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Honestly, not really in general. It was probably important for this recent realisation but it doesn't normally seem to help much.https://twitter.com/GeniesLoki/status/1312456864211169282 …
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Replying to @GeniesLoki @lisatomic5
I find that interesting, because I think for me it definitely would? Hard to talk about hypotheticals here so I'm having to extrapolate along the Kinsey scale a bit. I definitely think I'd be much better at making myself more attractive if I noticed attractive things in other men
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Ah, well, *making* myself more attractive is a different question. I know how to make myself reasonably attractive, it's just a bit abstract and doesn't really cause me to experience myself as attractive.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki @lisatomic5
Seems to me like trying to dance when you can't hear the music
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Replying to @loudest_love @lisatomic5
Not really, because you can define intermediate goals that are more accessible. e.g. comfort in my own body will make me more attractive. Dressing well (in particular ways) will make me more attractive. Figuring out what to do with my hair will make me more attractive.
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