In retrospect it’s precisely “very small things that people think they’re getting away with” that tanked my last two relationship. Very surprised at that
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Going meta, sounds like it was "not talking about problems before they become a big deal" that tanked your last two relationships.
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Or just communication problems / trust issues but that's a cop out because those cause basically everything.
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https://twitter.com/nosilverv/status/1313953186160545793 … sure makes it sound like it yeah.
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Rival Voices (50/284 heavy deep squats) @nosilvervReplying to @nosilverv @SeanMomboturned into a bunch if misunderstandings that we both felt trapped into and couldn’t figure out or get out from in a way that undid the damage. Eventually there was a big explosion and things ended. She was great tho1 reply 0 retweets 5 likes -
Replying to @GeniesLoki @nosilverv
The tattoo thing is weird af don't get me wrong, but the root cause sounds like she was (probably incorrectly) afraid of your reaction, trust broke down, and you couldn't talk about the underlying issues to resolve it.
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Yea. Incorrectly afraid -> hid and tried to paper over -> I noticed hiding -> felt safety disappeared -> no one figured out why -> things went downhill from there
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Yeah. My biggest relationship advice (which is hard and I follow imperfectly myself) is that creating total safety in both directions is the most important thing.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki @nosilverv
My untested take on rships is that it's like the sync status between two repositories
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