Operating sans trust is how you cultivate trust. You consistently trust the thing/person/whatever more than is warranted, and your level of trust in it rises to the level of its trustability.
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Replying to @averykimball
Yeah it helps to have long conversations with the farmer about each other's feelings. I dunno, a lot of the time you just have to take the final leap of faith. Some relationships are either trustworthy or not worth it and the only way to find out which is to trust.
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Replying to @averykimball
It's not exactly a retreat. The "leap of faith" isn't exactly "I take this trust on faith", it's that "I choose to behave as if I live in a reality if it's true, because either it's true and doubting it will destroy it, or it's not true and assuming it is is the way to find out"
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Replying to @GeniesLoki @averykimball
Like don't do this with a boss or coworker or whatever - there you can build a high but ultimately bounded degree of trust. Do do this with a romantic partner, a close friend, or yourself, because if those people don't fundamentally have your back they can't fulfil that role.
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I kinda don't want to comment on this because I just assume you won't trust anything I have to say about it anyway, but that sounds like something worth investigating and considering whether it makes you happy.
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