My least favourite genre of lie is "Thing everyone loudly says is true that is categorically false but that I wish were true."
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The second is a big one for me. It's how I navigate relationships by default. Dating... seems like it's configured to draw from areas where I'm interpersonally weak. That would've been a hard pill to swallow even if no one had lied to me about it.
Hmm hang on I have a thread from a while back about how this works in practice that might be helpful.
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Thanks! I could use it.
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Scott A wrote this thing about it once, which I thought helped. I at least get some of the theory, now. (subtweeted 'cause I don't know if he wants this to be too visible.) http://web.archive.org/web/20121007160559/http://squid314.livejournal.com/328528.html …
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