1. Is having sexual fantasies about someone you know but do not have an IRL sexual relationship with creepy? 2. Which binary gender are you / least badly describes you?
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fair enough. i've actually never been disappointed in that way. even when i start out with porn my thoughts usually turn to a current or ex partner. does this mean that to you fantasizing about someone you don't know in real life isn't creepy?
Yeah I'm not sure it's a real risk. It's more a general felt sense that it's somehow inappropriate? I think fantasising about a real person who you're never going to interact with is basically harmless. I don't usually do it, and I maybe feel a bit weird if I try, but not creepy
