13. It has recently become much easier for my partners and I to see each other and everything* about this is wonderful. * except, perhaps, its impact on our ability to get *any* work done.
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22. Back on the body comfort front, you know what's super amazing and good? Not having an upset stomach all the time. The dietary restrictions I finally figured out that allow me to maintain this state are kinda annoying but so very worth it.
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23. I can similarly HIGHLY recommend not having chronic pain. It's so good. (I haven't quite fixed mine, but a variety of lifestyle interventions have helped to dramatically reduce it)
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24. In general there's just been a lot of hugely positive trends in my life over the last two and a bit (many attributable to my partners, but it started a couple of months before I started dating them). I was in a bit of a holding pattern before then, and intervened to fix it.
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25. Brief triviality break because this is getting way too deep. This clip is hot but mostly I enjoyed sitting with my partners critiquing the characters' life choices. My dudes, that pretty hair is a write off and you'll need to bathe in white spirit.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UGTcFZaDHTs …
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26. Anyway I really need to do some work, so I'll leave you with an adorable desk weasel and return to this thread later.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d2CTVqt2wxU …
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27. I'm really failing to do work at the moment which may sound like a bad thing but is mostly because the sheer vast weight of tension figuring this out has allowed me to release over the last four days has left me ridiculously relaxed.https://twitter.com/GeniesLoki/status/1308705828715851777 …
8. It turns out that when I'm freaking out and trying not to show it I can just explain to the people I love that and why I am freaking out and they will say "thank you for explaining" and give me a hug and the situation will improve.
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29. I got called out (incompetently, incorrectly) and the world didn't end and I got a nice bonus emotional breakthrough out of it. This is a weird thing to list as a positive but it genuinely is one. Twitter feels much safer than when I was waiting for the other shoe to drop.
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30. I'm looking forward to throwing some small parties again once the Current Situation is resolved. Kinda thought my party throwing days were behind me but now it sounds genuinely nice.
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32. It's nice out. A bit drizzly but I'm enjoying the fresh air.
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33. Also there are pretty people out here and that's nice. I'm still not 100% where I want to be on this but my ability to find people straightforwardly attractive without it being a big deal has improved dramatically over the last year.
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34. I've read some good, interesting, and useful, books this year. Some were even all three!
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35. There's a solid core of people on alt Twitter who I consider Actual Friends (many of whom I know IRL or at least know their real name) and it feels really nice being here doing this slightly ridiculous thing together - feels like a connection we'd have missed out on otherwise
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37. You, yes you, the person reading this tweet and smiling at it. You know who you are.
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38. My work, professional and otherwise, genuinely seems to help people. Possibly quite a lot of people. Hard to judge numbers for reasons but I think it's fair to say that I've positively impacted thousands, probably tens of thousands, of people's lives.
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39. Tired from my walk and temporarily out of inspiration so here are some capybara.pic.twitter.com/N6dKaIdlJW
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41. Semirelatedly, a really nice thing about having a bunch of followers on Twitter and minimal fucks to give is that I can use you all to do interesting research into how people work. Earlier research was interesting and surprising.https://twitter.com/GeniesLoki/status/1308650087053230080 …
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42. Yeah I don't know if things are as "fixed" as I initially thought but I have definitely acquired substantially more chill over the last 24 hours than I previously possessed, and I think this is going to persist.
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46. Super tired so going to call it a day on this thread and continue tomorrow. Here's a stack of kittens.pic.twitter.com/q9slfX1XIN
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47. Gosh am I struggling with positivity today. Here are some ferrets.pic.twitter.com/02yNFXj4wz
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48. I am struggling with positivity today because of a whole bunch of difficult emotions and conversations. The fact that I am able to trust all parties involved to have those conversations is extremely positive even if the individual conversations themselves are more mixed.
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49. On the subject of emotions, my ongoing project of being better at feelings is very much working this year. It's been what... Three years since
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51. There have been no nice cats on this walk but there are a whole bunch of very cute ducks out right now.
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