1. Is having sexual fantasies about someone you know but do not have an IRL sexual relationship with creepy? 2. Which binary gender are you / least badly describes you?
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Hmm both dreams and absent minded thoughts seem non-creepy to me. Those are more like how the brain processes interest? I think active fantasising is creepy, but more passive stuff is just how attraction works and being attracted to people is good.
Like ultimately the process of going "Am I into X?" involves a little bit of fantasising-like thoughts about X in order to triangulate your attraction and interest and that absolutely should not be considered creepy.
