Self-improvement goals or achievement goals seem inherently kind of coercive and yucky Gonna try making goals around actions, and specifically the kind of actions that I already have the capability, capacity and confidence to pull off
Hmm. All of my self-improvement goals are basically "There's a thing I already want to do but my experience of it kinda sucks. Can I make it suck less?" Doesn't feel very coercive.
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Yeah, I think this might have more to do with my personal responses to failure than with the goals themselves I don't do well with the thought of committing to things I might fall short of, or something like that
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Maybe helpful thing is that my "goals" are really more like "works in progress" - they don't have a determined end state beyond "can I make this suck less?"
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