You know how some people are *really* into being geeks and proudly declare they're geeks and are super into things specifically because they're geeky and it's just incredibly cringe, especially if you're also a geek? I feel like a lot of identity labels work like this.
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I don't think identity labels are bad BTW. Identity labels serve a lot of useful social functions which are hard to replace. It's just that taking them too seriously seems to be a very cringe failure mode.
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I'm a little worried I've reinvented the "Fake Geek Girl" concept as most of the examples I can think of doing this are women. There are guys who are clearly a bit too into being geeks, but their identity isn't challenged so they don't need to perform it.https://twitter.com/GeniesLoki/status/1305033957713612800 …
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yea i think your filtering might be off cuz while fake geek girl is a more legible character type i have a much stronger association between op behavior and dudes
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Replying to @Tipsycaek
Interesting. This might just be a function of how I filter my social circle then, or maybe we're pointing at slightly different things.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki
well the like modern ingroup pointer is “soyface guys”
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Replying to @Tipsycaek
oh, yeah, Wil Wheaton is definitely a male example of what I'm pointing at. Hmm. Actually a lot of people who perform Geek on camera might count. That's interesting.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki
if you're excluding public figures (as implied by your tweet referring to personal social circles) then this may be a symptom of you having had more chances to apply strong filters to the male geeks in your life and less to the female ones. or memories of adolescent female ones.
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Yeah my social circle is very heavily female, so it may well be that I'm just oversupplied with female examples.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki
ah thatd do it too. im pulling primarily from public figures and loose acquintances
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Replying to @Tipsycaek @GeniesLoki
oh and working at a video/board game store........
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