You know how some people are *really* into being geeks and proudly declare they're geeks and are super into things specifically because they're geeky and it's just incredibly cringe, especially if you're also a geek? I feel like a lot of identity labels work like this.
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@Tipsycaek has convinced me that the "mostly female examples" thing is idiosyncratic to my social circle and this is totally a thing guys do too.https://twitter.com/Tipsycaek/status/1305043973946314755 …Show this threadThanks. Twitter will use this to make your timeline better. UndoUndo
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yea i think your filtering might be off cuz while fake geek girl is a more legible character type i have a much stronger association between op behavior and dudes
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Interesting. This might just be a function of how I filter my social circle then, or maybe we're pointing at slightly different things.
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Fake geek girls hinge on the assumption that the person in question is making a false claim, but you said "if you're also a geek", suggesting latent acknowledgement.
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also it's worth noting that being challenged on one's identity will put someone in the stress-activated "performing for a test" mindset, which is somewhat notorious for degrading performance astoundingly.
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I have know guys who think they are geeky and aren't but they didnt try to sell it that hard. He'll, I've tried to sell my identities hard though and I'm sure I looked like a dork. I've known maybe exactly one woman who wanted to be a geek and wasn't.
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