Hmm. Speculative thought, not sure if I believe it or not, but it feels truthy: The major division in masculine vs feminine conversation norms is whose responsibility it is to manage your feelings about the conversation. Male norms say it's yours, female norms say it's mine.
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This does seem to break down in a number of cases: e.g. when men are allowed to be angry at each other doesn't follow this pattern, and I'm a bit confused about what the intended cross gender norms are supposed to be.
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if i think about it i've experienced at least 4 subtypes of mansplaining - mansplaining as gatekeeping "oh, you you x, well, what do you know about y??" - mansplaining as performative social status gathering - mansplaining as (semi-inept) flirting - mansplaining as genuine
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the main annoyance is it happens so often!
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