Like I think fundamentally you can't actually think that men are emotionless husks if you actually know any men, which most people do. A lot of "Men are evil" talk seems to have huge cognitive dissonance with people's positive experiences of individual men.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki @MusingsOfYouth and
So I think a lot of feminists actually find it quite helpful to hear the men's perspective in a way that helps them understand and engage with them.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki @MusingsOfYouth and
It's the politics not the ideas, really, that are the barrier. Would be possible to, for example, set up such a department within a university or a civil society org - but it's hard doings in these times for various reasons.
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Replying to @Fullbitchschol1 @MusingsOfYouth and
Yeah. I'm assuming that any effective version of such a movement necessarily starts as grass roots on the internet and acquires academic respectability later.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki @MusingsOfYouth and
Hahaha, love that it starts on the internet :P But yes, it needs to be won at many grassroots, and the internet is grassroots too now.
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Replying to @Fullbitchschol1 @GeniesLoki and
I'm struggling a bit with what specific topics would be discussed, as someone who's not an expert in feminist literature. I always assumed the "all men are evil" crowd were a small, extreme group within feminism...
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Replying to @chrisgardenuk @Fullbitchschol1 and
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Well https://twitter.com/GeniesLoki/status/1298197746046971910 … is an example of a good masculinist topic. In general difficulty men have processing and discussing their own emotions. Most men (in Western anglophone cultures anyway) are touch starved and this is A Big Deal.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki @Fullbitchschol1 and
I remember the discussing emotions thread, although I still feel it's more complex than women showing emotions and men not.
The touch thing is interesting. One thing that springs to mind is that a lot of men don't feel comfortable with touch from other men.3 replies 0 retweets 0 likes -
Replying to @chrisgardenuk @Fullbitchschol1 and
Yes, it is of course more complicated than that. It's a big skew in the gendering of emotional labour rather than the totality of it.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki @chrisgardenuk and
And yes, a lot of men don't feel comfortable touching other men, but that's not some intrinsic feature of being a man that's part of a created culture that hurts men.
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It's a mix of internalised homophobia and norms that admitting to needs is weakness.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki @Fullbitchschol1 and
Much of this is the internal culture of men though, I think. I think most women I know aren't bothered by gay men, although many are bothered by bisexual men, or at least the thought of dating a man who's been with men.
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Replying to @chrisgardenuk @Fullbitchschol1 and
I don't think it's just the internal culture of men. A lot of how masculinity is constructed is through wanting to be the sort of man women will date. Also you literally provided one of the major ways women contribute to this problem in your tweet!
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