I consider myself feminist and have spent lots of time grappling with this, but no other feminist I've conversed with accepts it as a legitimate issue to consider.
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Replying to @MusingsOfYouth @pieratt and
Pretty much every time I talk about these sorts of issues on here I get at least a few new women (I haven't polled but I assume most/all of them would consider themselves feminists given the conversations) positively engaging with it.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki @MusingsOfYouth and
Like I think fundamentally you can't actually think that men are emotionless husks if you actually know any men, which most people do. A lot of "Men are evil" talk seems to have huge cognitive dissonance with people's positive experiences of individual men.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki @MusingsOfYouth and
So I think a lot of feminists actually find it quite helpful to hear the men's perspective in a way that helps them understand and engage with them.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki @MusingsOfYouth and
It's the politics not the ideas, really, that are the barrier. Would be possible to, for example, set up such a department within a university or a civil society org - but it's hard doings in these times for various reasons.
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Replying to @Fullbitchschol1 @MusingsOfYouth and
Yeah. I'm assuming that any effective version of such a movement necessarily starts as grass roots on the internet and acquires academic respectability later.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki @MusingsOfYouth and
Hahaha, love that it starts on the internet :P But yes, it needs to be won at many grassroots, and the internet is grassroots too now.
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Replying to @Fullbitchschol1 @GeniesLoki and
I'm struggling a bit with what specific topics would be discussed, as someone who's not an expert in feminist literature. I always assumed the "all men are evil" crowd were a small, extreme group within feminism...
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Replying to @chrisgardenuk @Fullbitchschol1 and
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Well https://twitter.com/GeniesLoki/status/1298197746046971910 … is an example of a good masculinist topic. In general difficulty men have processing and discussing their own emotions. Most men (in Western anglophone cultures anyway) are touch starved and this is A Big Deal.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki @Fullbitchschol1 and
I remember the discussing emotions thread, although I still feel it's more complex than women showing emotions and men not.
The touch thing is interesting. One thing that springs to mind is that a lot of men don't feel comfortable with touch from other men.3 replies 0 retweets 0 likes
Yes, it is of course more complicated than that. It's a big skew in the gendering of emotional labour rather than the totality of it.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki @chrisgardenuk and
And yes, a lot of men don't feel comfortable touching other men, but that's not some intrinsic feature of being a man that's part of a created culture that hurts men.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki @chrisgardenuk and
It's a mix of internalised homophobia and norms that admitting to needs is weakness.
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