I have become significantly hornier over the last few years and am happy to explain how I did it if you like?
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Guys tend to heavily overidentify with the body side (crudely: they don't feel like they're horny in less they're hard) and so tend to neglect the brain side of things, and it can be worth trying to cultivate both. Essentially trying to find sexuality interesting in and of itself
I should probably try to write something more coherent about this but those are my initial brain dump thoughts.
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Oh I should say: Part of why I mentioned the dating advice is that it was very helpful to me to have partners who I could have as much or as little sex as I wanted with, and could trust them to be curious and nonjudgemental about my very erratic sex drive. Poly is good for this.
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Also this isn't a quick process and it's not going to change overnight. It's more about creating the opportunity in which being horny is possible and desirable ("Be attracted / don't be unattracted") and letting that naturally happen rather than forcing the change.
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