Polarise. Become more yourself - the people for whom that sparks joy will go "Yay!" and hang out with you more, the people for whom it doesn't will open up slots for hanging out with more people who vibe well with you.
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Hmm. Yeah. I was thinking more along the lines of exploring the polarisation aspect (e.g. "I'm changing in ways X, Y, Z, how does that feel?") but maybe that's hard to separate out.