Polarise. Become more yourself - the people for whom that sparks joy will go "Yay!" and hang out with you more, the people for whom it doesn't will open up slots for hanging out with more people who vibe well with you.
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To some degree growing out of touch is an unfortunate but inevitable consequence of change. Might be worth doing some friend triage: Who do you actually want to retain as friends, and who do you feel you just should want to? Can you talk to the former about this?
