I kinda think the usefulness of this account being vaguely ungendered has run its course, so I guess I'll out myself as a man. I'm sure few to none of you are surprised.
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I've thought about this as a label but generally what I've found is that the more of my gender-related trauma / broader emotional mess I work on the more happy I am identifying as male so have basically decided it doesn't fit.
I'm certainly at most casually male with some strongly feminine-coded traits, but I think that's mostly just what healthy performance of a gender role looks like.
