I feel like people theorising the link between kinks and trauma often miss the point. You don't need complex theories to explain why someone is into a particular kink - it's just fun. What you need to explain is why people are stuck in a particular range of fun things.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki
A friend realized he had a huge previously uncovered trauma when he was trying to find out why he had a particular kink. For him it was helpful to discover the link.
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Replying to @DiamonDie
For sure! There's a lot of useful info in the link. But my point is that the thing that needs to be explained is generally not "Why this?" but "Why this and not others?"
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