It's interesting how poly people get talked about. I'm particularly intrigued by how the genre of monogamous people going "Poly people are so mean about monogamy" is totally fine in circles where straight people would absolutely never get away with the same RE queer people.
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But, as with all dominant cultures, monogamy culture has got some serious issues, and yeah people who are slightly outside it and constantly being judged as a result of those issues are going to be hyper aware of those issues.
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A lot of why poly people are so mean about monogamy is that we are on the receiving end of the full force of its judgemental bullshit, and are sick of it, and are complaining about that.
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Are some of those complaints less than productive? Yeah, definitely. Are poly advocates often super annoying? Yup, for sure.
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But "you should only complain about the problems you face as a result of judgement from the dominant culture in a maximally productive way" is not a good look, and a lot of people seem to think it's OK to apply it to poly people in a way they wouldn't to others.
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