GeniesLoki

I think you're probably underestimating how common this is. People meet friends through friends, and queer people tend to know other queer people. I do work with people many of whom I assume are straight, but it doesn't come up much and I don't know many of them well.

It's probably more of a queer-in-a-big-city thing though.

Yeah I mean I'm sure I run into random straight people all the time, and I do know some socially (I'm even dating one!), but my social circle is just really heavily majority bisexual so it's always vaguely surprising when I meet a new one socially.

Wellll... it's definitely more common for women, but I live with two bisexual men so it's certainly not *rare*. I think with men it's more like "socialisation prevents them from being bisexual" than it is "definitely not bi". e.g. https://twitter.com/GeniesLoki/status/1286997579402805250 … is a whole big thing.

Also we're bad at conceptualising men as attractive. A thing that seems to happen with bi women is that once they start finding women attractive they realise that there are a lot of *really* attractive women.