Making feel guilty and awkward around earning money is such a great tool of social control. I've kinda got to begrudgingly respect whatever asshole came up with it.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki
I always thought this was just because it's hard to be friends with people with very different incomes than yourself. So it's awkward to make more money because it strains your relationships.
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Replying to @Kirsten3531
I think that's part of it, yeah, but it seems to be a phenomenon even among similar salary people.
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Replying to @GeniesLoki @Kirsten3531
(Also I wouldn't rule out "It's difficult to be friends with people with very different salaries" as part of the *mechanism* of social control rather than an innocent intrinsic fact of life)
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Replying to @GeniesLoki @Kirsten3531
I think the innocent explanations "people with different salaries have different cost/time tradeoffs" and "it sucks to always be the one on the receiving end of charity" are sufficient.
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Replying to @pozorvlak @Kirsten3531
They're sufficient within the system as it exists, yes, but that is itself an artefact, and various features of that system significantly exacerbate those explanations: The range of salaries you can easily be friends with broadens significantly if people aren't struggling.
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At the bottom end the problem comes from precarity, at the top end it comes from the way people's cost of living is significantly encouraged to track their salaries.
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