“Change comes from within” is a bad heuristic for self-improvement. We evolved to adapt to environmental pressures, so if you wish to develop as a person, develop your surroundings into an environment that will require you to become who you wish to be.
The "programming" that you speak of comes from a source external to it (i.e. you), and is thus environmental.
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