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Päivi Butcher ADHD/Autism Advocate
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#ADHDTwitter | #ActuallyAutistic | #AuDHD | Works at an ND coaching company | She/her | Misc | IG | @Finnattentive@mastodon.social
Tampere, Finlandmastodon.social/@finnattentiveJoined August 2016

Päivi Butcher ADHD/Autism Advocate’s Tweets

I know my "polite" often is different to neurotypicals' "polite"; I upset people when I only mean well. That actually upsets me a lot.
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I seriously believe what is considered “polite” needs to move beyond neurotypical-only centered norms and consider what is “polite” in ADHD and/or autistic social circles, too.
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"Eat the frog" productivity method: do the hardest, most important task of the day first thing in the morning, before checking the news, Twitter(!) etc. Sounds novel! 😅 Have you tried? #ADHDtwitter
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Replying to @VimtoTime
"Eat the frog" seems to be a thing to help with procrastination. Here's a web link in case you can ever get round to reading it… 😉 todoist.com/productivity-m
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The lyrics 🔥 Nonspeaker Damon Kirsebom: "Dear Autism Professional ... you might just be what's causing the pain" #ListenToNonSpeakers #Autism #ActuallyAutistic #AutismAcceptance
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how about a song? "Dear Autism Professional" is one of my favourites. It's a brutally honest song directed at folks who make their careers off autistic nonspeakers. it's by Damon Kirsebom. Damon kicks ass and his lyrics here go HARD youtube.com/watch?v=Q33rr0
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Autism self-diagnosis is valid. If you're against self-dg, 👋🏼 (Please unfollow me. I'm self-diagnosed.) For many reasons, not everyone has a chance to pursue an official dg. There are loads and loads of undiagnosed autistics in the world. Gatekeeping sucks. #ActuallyAutistic
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If you're autistic, you're autistic whether or not someone has diagnosed you. #Autism #Autistic #SelfDiagnosisIsValid
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A moving thread that shows the difference between actually helping and offering to help.
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That's the end. The "ask for help" advice is well-meaning but not really thought through. There's shame, there's enforced helplessness, there's the feeling you're not worth it, etc. My friends didn't wait for me to ask. They showed up. They took over. They didn't ask.
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I just registered there too 🐳😅 Just in case Twitter, you know. It does sound very good, though. #Spoutible
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🐳Today is the start of Black History Month, and it's a special day for all of us. Later today, I will launch the first Black-owned Twitter alternative that focuses on protecting its users and providing a safe environment for marginalized communities. Let's make history together!
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"The fairytale Finnish city you’ve probably never heard of" Tampere. Home. ❤️
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Ice dancing, saunas and a Moomin museum enchant @ViewfromPenge and his family — plus, four more underrated European cities thetimes.co.uk/article/the-fa
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Last assignment for my neuropsychiatric coach training, about narratives, just turned in!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 I'm so done studying 😅 #YayMe #ADHD
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Just turned in the book reflection assignment! 🙌🏼 One to go!! That's due tomorrow, so tomorrow it is! Don't worry, I'll soon stop tweeting about these assignments. Just been a big deal for me. Now a few Jaffa cakes and bed. (It's midnight.) Goodnight! #YayMe #ADHD twitter.com/Finnattentive/…
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Just turned in the book reflection assignment! 🙌🏼 One to go!! That's due tomorrow, so tomorrow it is! Don't worry, I'll soon stop tweeting about these assignments. Just been a big deal for me. Now a few Jaffa cakes and bed. (It's midnight.) Goodnight! #YayMe #ADHD
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Today I started and nearly finished my book(s) reflection assignment, and I already started my narratives assignment before that. They are the only ones left to turn in and I will finally get my neuropsychiatric coach certificate! I've got 4 days left, 🍰! Been hard work.. #ADHD twitter.com/Finnattentive/…
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I don't wanna use my nice stickers, notebooks, pens etc. I know I can get new ones, but it doesn't help. I'm currently wearing all my best socks and I really want Lidl to sell them again, so I can get more before these wear out. (Socks for diabetics, comfy 🥰) #ActuallyAutistic
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Replying to @mightbeautistic
There was a thread on an autistic fb group recently about the tendency to basically keep our cake instead of eating it. That is, we have the really nice pen, yarn, paint, notebook, chocolate, but we keep it instead of using it. The potential pleasure is better than the actual
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Saw some gatekeeping again: a nasty quote-tweet about autism (and ADHD) self-dg, tweeted today. The account they quote-tweeted no longer exists. Can't help wondering if they were a self-dg person, looking for community, and they were immediately driven away. I sure hope not.
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