Quick Thread: I always see people throwing out the phrase "punch up, not down" and I have a weird problem with it because here's the thing... A lot of times that's exactly what they think they're doing.
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And so much sexism is rooted in the power that men feel women have OVER them because of attraction, which results in an endless cacophony of mixed messages and rage from men who have no freakin idea what to do with their feelings.
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Forget what's real. Because often what we're talking about is a deeply emotional truth from inside them. They know what they FEEL. They know what they FEAR. They are undeniably felt. And so these are the things that have power over them.
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Even guys like Ricky Gervais become so obsessed with offense / censorship because they feel like that's what they feel has power OVER them. The point of this is all views of "power" tend to be pretty damn myopic and limited.
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So the problem isn't punching up or down. The problem is so many people literally think down IS up. Which unfortunately means there's no handy little thing to say that's going to get them to realize they're punching down.
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There's no quick and easy way to deprogram people from toxic viewpoints. Altering someone's worldview is one of the most difficult things we can pursue. But it's the only way forward. So all I am left with is a couple of scary things I keep having to remember...
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1) Never underestimate what any human being (including white billionaires) will do to see themselves as the scrappy underdog. 2) Never underestimate the cognitive dissonance one will invoke to call themselves oppressed as they step on your neck. /end.
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You’re missing the contradiction identified in Umberto Ecco’s classic Ur Fascism. “The enemy is both too strong AND too weak”. Fascists are both heroic champions and oppressed victims. Fascists don’t really have an ideology, but they have this paradoxical belief.
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