this is something i learned the hard way and now live by. For a time i would go to everyone and their mother for advice and i got the same answer every time, always expecting a different answer but i never knew what exactly i was expecting.https://twitter.com/ScAtt227/status/1199915486705795072 …
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eventually all my friends who were trying to help me gradually became less and less tolerant of me making the same mistakes to myself and were “harsher” to me when i would make those mistakes. They knew i wouldn’t be able to move on unless i took action, and eventually i did
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and after that things got a lot better. i always expected a definitive answer that would solve my problem easily, but the real solution is NEVER easy, which is why people avoid it, but if you’re struggling but not actively changing anything, you’re only bringing yourself AND
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everyone else trying to help you down. Take action, because not everyone is going to wait
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