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@EvyKassirer

feminism, tech, music, education, f e e l i n g s (polyamorous, she/her)

Vrijeme pridruživanja: listopad 2013.

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  1. Prikvačeni tweet
    24. sij

    A worry junior engineers and new hires frequently have is that they ask too many questions. The most common advice I've heard is to try to figure it out yourself for 30 min, and if you're still stuck, ask. This is reasonable advice, but I don't think it's actually very good.

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    27. sij

    Drinking that internet juice

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  3. 24. sij

    tl;dr instead of telling people to wait 30 minutes before asking questions, encourage curiosity and allow people to actually ask too many questions. Provide a psychologically safe place to mess up, and provide useful and timely feedback when they do.

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  4. 24. sij

    Learning from messing up does NOT come for free. You need psychological safety, where people feel safe messing up. This is largely the work of senior engineers, managers, and leadership. And to learn, people need to know they made mistakes! There has to be fast feedback!

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  5. 24. sij

    If you asked questions you could have figured out yourself, now you have examples of ways to improve. If you asked too many questions, now you know what too much is. And you can stop worrying about doing it wrong - because doing it wrong is *expected* as part of the learning.

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  6. 24. sij

    My preferred method for building the skill of asking questions is the same as for reducing worry: allow messing up. Learning from failure is underrated.

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  7. 24. sij

    There is a skill of knowing when and how to ask questions, and this skill can be learned. Moreso, I think many people are already pretty good at this! Many of my friends tell me they're *worried* they ask too many questions, and few have been told they *actually do*.

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  8. 24. sij

    Sometimes I gradually work things out myself in over 30 minutes. Sometimes I have questions that aren't essential or urgent. I batch these, ask them together at convenient times, and learn a lot of cool things. There is so much variation!

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  9. 24. sij

    One nuance that gets wiped away by the 30 min rule is the wide variety of question-asking situations. I've gotten stuck on something important after mere minutes, and then unblocked after a 10 second conversation with a coworker. (the files I couldn't find had legacy names)

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    What lyric completely undoes you, every time you hear it?

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  11. 18. sij

    thank god didn't sell out immediately because I forgot to get a ticket 45 min ago, but I just got one!! super excited :)

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    15. sij

    A friend once shared what she called the Parable of the Choir: A choir can sing a beautiful note impossibly long because singers can individually drop out to breathe as necessary and the note goes on. Social justice activism should be like that, she said. That's stuck with me.

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  13. 16. sij

    Situation 1: you're just cold enough to want a sweater if you had one, but it's ok that you don't Situation 2: you're just warm enough to take off a sweater if it was convenient, but it's ok that it's not This is an example of a broader question: which sensation do you prefer?

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    pink in the night

    lyric comic to pink in the night, by mitski. page 1: and i know i've kissed you before, but i didn't do it right. scene 1: a little boy and girl sitting in the rain. the boy wipes away tears, having tripped and scratched his knee. the girl leans forward to kiss the small wound. scene 2: they're in elementary school, holding hands. the boy looks at a picture depicting a mom, dad, & child.
    page 2 words: can i try again, try again, try again. scene 1: high school. they lie on the floor during a study session but they only have eyes for each other. scene 2: college. the same couple, only now they are two girls, kissing in bed. scene 3: the girls are getting married, exchanging a sweet kiss in a field of flowers. sunset colors cast warm light onto their wedding dresses.
    page 3: try again, and again, and again. scene 1: moving in together. one of them dozes off against an unpacked moving box - the other kisses her head. scene 2: disneyland. both in minnie mouse ears, they take a selfie, laughing at the kiss mark one has left on her wife's cheek. scene 3: older, one woman hides a bouquet behind her back as they kiss over breakfast.
    page 4: and again, and again, and again? scene 1: waking up in bed together. one kisses the other's bare shoulder, hints of grey in their hair. scene 2: a winter walk. they kiss as their dog plays in the snow. scene 3: shore of a beach. the wives have greying hair and fine wrinkles, but they're still just as in love. they hold each other close, laughing, full of affection.
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  15. 12. sij

    "love flows into the little nooks and crannies that form when people give each other the space to be themselves"

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  16. 9. sij
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  17. 7. sij

    been going for mini morning walks and seeing what I notice this morning I noticed how tree branches change the way they overlap in my field of view as I move, making different patterns with each other as I walk, and it was very calming

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    5. sij

    arming myself with every good Vibe this sunday evening as I venture bravely into the unknown* *monday morning

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  19. 4. sij

    anyone have (android) apps they like to use to keep track of articles and blog posts they want to read?

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  20. 1. sij

    time is fuckin weird

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