Can you fix a problem if you don't think it's a problem?
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Yes. If somebody else tells you it's a problem and it's hampering the relationship?
From my experience when someone is in denial and someone points it out it only pushes them further into the behavior. I was very think headed in my youth....well and now too
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Deleted my first reply. Yes I understand. I suffer from a very odd lack of pride which makes me way too amenable to 'fixing' relationships. I've learned over the years that it doesn't help!
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I've always had this drive to fix people so naturally I'm trying to be a therapist but as I went deeper into my program I realized I won't be "fixing" people I will simply be giving people the tools they need to change behaviors that are unwanted or cause them problems
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