It makes me sick that I can't talk about women being abused or sexually harassed without receiving a lot of vile harassment. And men making jokes about it. It's fucked up and insensitive to leave those types of comments. That's a problem. Men need to change their behavior.
That's how some people try to defend this kind of horrible behavior. They do not care about the abuse just that someone is exposing it. Do not let them stop you from exposing the truth. Stay strong.