It's weird: I spent 30 years in the closet aggressively policing my physical movement, gestures, tone of voice, vocabulary, and general demeanor to ensure they weren't too "feminine" and risk assault and abuse, only to come out + now regularly question if I'm sometimes too masc.
You do you. Social standards for what behaviors are considered masculine or feminine should not deter you from behaving however you see fit. So long as you are happy with yourself no need to worry about the small stuff.
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