let's not start using the term 'incel' as if it's a valid concept. it isn't. no one is owed sex. we already *have* a word for those who call themselves 'incel': 'misogynist'
It would be wrong to assume people dangerous because they want sex and can’t get it. The term incel is useful, the attack on any who define themselves as such is not. Both sexes have plenty of people getting a lot less sex and intimacy than they desire. Both deserve compassion.