No I was saying you could educate me but you only really willing to try to create strife. I lost my best friend and my business partner
I lost 15 trans women this year, I lost a trans women in my community, marched, and got run down by a terrorist.
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This stops when you say, "I apologize. I don't understand and may never, but I apologize to Steph and will correct this."
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I am sorry for your loss and your grief. I am. But your actions compound the grief of a very close community who have dealt with this before
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I feel like tweets directed to grieving friends might not be the best place to educate the ignorant.
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Twitter is the medium by which the ignorance was spread.
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Nevertheless, I will delete my tweets, as I sense the message has been received. You can do better by her, and I trust you now will.
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Consider that none of us cis know how to handle this stuff. I so want to respect the person I loved. I would love to talk more via email
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I will email but it will be after I deal with media, the police, the FBI, and my day job. But the first step to knowing what to do is listen
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I hope you have a better day.
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I'm very sorry for your loss, I wish we could've met under different circumstances.
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The way to honor your friend is to correct this wrong and honor the identity she never felt safe enough telling the world about.
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Sometimes people ask me, Allan, when my transition is "complete." I tell them it's when my death certificate reads "F."
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You may not understand, and your friend may never receive that privilege. But we do, and you have the power to honor her.
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