[cw: rape] I want to riff off this for a sec, not to overshadow or recenter from Summer's post, but to add to what I said the other day.https://twitter.com/summerbrennan/status/860457889777016832 …
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And I think this is an apt time to explain why I'm unreported. It happened at a gay bar, and I don't like talking about it.
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I don't like talking about it because when I tell people where it happened, sometimes people think I was asking for it by being there.
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I also internalized some of that myself and wonder if my being there was a contributing factor despite doing nothing to bring it on.
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And despite knowing that victims are never to blame.
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Everything about this story is so familiar. I'm so sorry.


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I just wanted to put that out there before the inevitable, "IF IT HAPPENED, WHY DIDNT YOU REPORT IT!?" trolls come a-calling.
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I had a similar framing. Gay bar, surprised me. I got away and tried to find cops but there weren't any. So I drove home shitfaced.
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it's awful to think we have to take that responsibility on ourselves by enjoying one of the few spaces we have in public.
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