How about you actually just trust her when she says what she needs?
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I don't see how my privilege comes into play here, but it's nice to know I can't advocate for her safety by suggesting she isn't safe there without being told I'm being what I assume you consider an ass. I'm always open to learning more about how my privilege works though.
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So..how about instead of being an ass to me you offer to teach me instead of presuming to tell me what I can stand for?
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Don't presume you know more about someone's needs than they do. Especially when you inherit multiple axis of privilege over them.
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How do you know: - it happened at her place and not a friends? - that they didn't catch the perp? - that she hasn't already made plans to move? - that your one experience scales at all in any way? You don't. You assumed you knew better.
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And rather than doing what was asked you presumptively assumed you had a better solution because you think you are wiser somehow. That is privilege speaking.
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