No, it’s only “evident” they can consent if you’re letting your perversions clouding your rationality and morality. While I have my thoughts and attractions, I have the self control to oppose these things and accept the reality we can’t always have what we want.https://twitter.com/eivindberge/status/1081379441924812800 …
Your saying this as a female makes it even more bizarre because I do not believe female sexuality has the power to sexually abuse even in principle. There is simply no harm to female sexuality, unless there is other abuse, which only incidentally can be sexualized.