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Accidental philosopher. Freelance educator. Autistic. Disabled. Bi. Grey-ace. Demi-aro. Filipino-USian. Designer. They/Them @sjwishlists/@modeldeviance

Unceded Haudenosaunee, Miami, Potawatomi land
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    1. Eb‏ @EbThen 18 May 2017
      Replying to @EbThen

      To them, the problem isn't that toxic masculinity creates harmful expectations for individuals and relationships.

      1 reply 9 retweets 54 likes
    2. Eb‏ @EbThen 18 May 2017
      Replying to @EbThen

      To them, the problem is that they're not benefiting from the toxic masculinity's oppression and they believe they should be.

      1 reply 6 retweets 69 likes
    3. Eb‏ @EbThen 18 May 2017
      Replying to @EbThen

      Keep in mind that generally we're talking about men who are privileged in most every way except being Neurodivergent.

      2 replies 6 retweets 59 likes
    4. Eb‏ @EbThen 18 May 2017
      Replying to @EbThen

      It's less of a matter of survival for them to reckon with other forms of oppression alongside ableism. So they choose not to.

      1 reply 5 retweets 46 likes
    5. Eb‏ @EbThen 18 May 2017
      Replying to @EbThen

      I'm sympathetic to these folks' loneliness, but not so much to the harm they do to the rest of us trying to address it.

      1 reply 6 retweets 58 likes
    6. Eb‏ @EbThen 18 May 2017
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      Eb Retweeted Eb

      Take 2: To them, the problem is they're not sexually benefiting from this oppression & they believe they should be.https://twitter.com/erabrand/status/865290802469240833 …

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      Eb @EbThen
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      To them, the problem is that they're not benefiting from the toxic masculinity's oppression and they believe they should be.
      1 reply 13 retweets 55 likes
    7. Eb‏ @EbThen 18 May 2017
      Replying to @EbThen

      I don't have a ton of advice for navigating sexual relationships as an Autistic person bc it's not really important to me personally.

      1 reply 2 retweets 31 likes
    8. Eb‏ @EbThen 18 May 2017
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      That said, I still notice that others of my fellow Autistics engage in lots of sexual behavior, including sexting in DMs on Twitter.

      1 reply 3 retweets 30 likes
    9. Eb‏ @EbThen 18 May 2017
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      Being Autistic doesn't mean you can't have fulfilling sexual relationships. But part of that is recognizing that other people matter, too.

      3 replies 6 retweets 55 likes
    10. Eb‏ @EbThen 18 May 2017
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      And I kind of think ppl who get caught up in complaining about "InCel" don't remember that.

      1 reply 3 retweets 29 likes
      Eb‏ @EbThen 18 May 2017

      I'd guess "treating other ppl as equally human" is a major difference btwn Autistic ppl who have fulfilling sex lives & "InCel"s.

      1:04 PM - 18 May 2017
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        2. Eb‏ @EbThen 18 May 2017
          Replying to @EbThen

          Like, I'm sorry, but being Autistic did not turn you into someone no one wants to be with. You kinda did that to yourself.

          1 reply 12 retweets 65 likes
        3. Eb‏ @EbThen 18 May 2017
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          And the good news is, you can probably undo it!

          1 reply 4 retweets 43 likes
        4. Eb‏ @EbThen 18 May 2017
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          I do want to say, again, that if you're an Autistic man and you decide to work on this stuff, good, but please don't bug me about it.

          1 reply 2 retweets 34 likes
        5. Eb‏ @EbThen 18 May 2017
          Replying to @EbThen

          I say me, but I also mean "anyone who isn't another man probably."

          1 reply 2 retweets 34 likes
        6. Eb‏ @EbThen 18 May 2017
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          I think it's better if you work with other men on this than if you burden people who aren't men w/reassuring you.

          1 reply 3 retweets 36 likes
        7. Eb‏ @EbThen 18 May 2017
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          Because, like, we've got our own stuff to deal with and you learning to be a decent person is good but we didn't sign on to hold your hand.

          1 reply 4 retweets 40 likes
        8. Eb‏ @EbThen 18 May 2017
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          We'll let you know if you're going wrong. We probably won't praise you for being decent but we won't yell at you for it so.

          1 reply 2 retweets 30 likes
        9. Eb‏ @EbThen 18 May 2017
          Replying to @EbThen

          And honestly, I say this stuff because it hurts me in a sharper way when Autistic people are being crappy.

          2 replies 1 retweet 34 likes
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        2. David‏ @BustTheNotes 18 May 2017
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          I read the phrase 'sex lives,' and I was automatically sold on reading your thread. I'm sorry I'm 5 years old.

          1 reply 0 retweets 1 like
        3. Eb‏ @EbThen 18 May 2017
          Replying to @BustTheNotes

          I still find bathroom jokes funny.

          0 replies 0 retweets 2 likes
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