I said this elsewhere, but it's not that there isn't a problem. It's more that these men have misidentified the problem and its causes.
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I'd guess "treating other ppl as equally human" is a major difference btwn Autistic ppl who have fulfilling sex lives & "InCel"s.
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Like, I'm sorry, but being Autistic did not turn you into someone no one wants to be with. You kinda did that to yourself.
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And the good news is, you can probably undo it!
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I do want to say, again, that if you're an Autistic man and you decide to work on this stuff, good, but please don't bug me about it.
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I say me, but I also mean "anyone who isn't another man probably."
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I think it's better if you work with other men on this than if you burden people who aren't men w/reassuring you.
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Because, like, we've got our own stuff to deal with and you learning to be a decent person is good but we didn't sign on to hold your hand.
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We'll let you know if you're going wrong. We probably won't praise you for being decent but we won't yell at you for it so.
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And honestly, I say this stuff because it hurts me in a sharper way when Autistic people are being crappy.
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