It can also be an example of "realism bias". One can discover that one's abstract ideal partner isn't what really works, especially when a real partner who is different from the ideal turns out to be better suited to one's real life needs and enjoyment.
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Leon Festinger's theory of cognitive dissonance (and its reduction) at work. Nothing new since 1957...
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My mom said “this makes sense because women are always trying to sculpt their perfect man”
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I have. 27 years...don’t regret a moment of adjusting. He’s worth it. So am I.
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Can you know your ideal in advance of experience? You may think your ideal partner should be well read, but the experience of wanting the attention of a partner that reads may not be quite so appealing. A soulmate will be the perfect accompaniment to you, and imperfect without.
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