Remember beating myself up about looking at women's chests, even for a split second. I used to unironically think I would be better off castrated. I fucking *researched* it. We don't live in rape culture, we live in rape-hysteria culture. Fuck I didn't want to remember that shit
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Makes it hard to both have self respect and participate in dating culture where the man has to initiate, and then do 8 backflips to maintain her attention. I should just be allowed to be angry, but then I'll likely be alone forever. Eris had a tweet about male desire raping men
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Last squeeze of the wound I swear: whenever I share any vulnerability or try to process this externally it pushes women away. You think men socialise men to be stoic? I've yet to meet a woman who has had the moral fiber to just listen and not judge. It's be superman or gtfo.
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Replying to @JaneSmi01328174 @QiaochuYuan
please be kind everyone is hurting a lot of the time and combining these two particular pains in conversation is just going to lead to more pain on both sides.
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Replying to @JaneSmi01328174 @QiaochuYuan
because he was venting to someone else who empathized with him in a cooperative way, and had received several signals that his expression was welcome and productive if it had been you expressing your own pain, and he had jumped in combatively, I would have
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I'm not saying you're wrong or bad and I understand the impulse here but both your pain and his are real and I'm hoping to gently discourage interactions that are only going to cause more
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i so appreciate you. 
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