this is kind of nasty. this is a platform for self expression, on an alt.
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It’s the truth.
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how do you know
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Anecdotal:Ppl who disclose large amounts of ‘private info’ usually regret it at a later time. I’ve had ppl attempt to share ‘private’ thoughts&experiences. I ALWAYS stop them or walk away. Ppl who don’t have strong boundaries get into many unfortunate & regrettable experiences.
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you are being superior with your perspective. this is called "mansplaining."
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WADR : (That’s hilarious.) What is being ‘superior’ about sharing what I have learned from observation , experience, and other people complaining about this specific imposition of personal information.
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this specifically is kind of an offending bit. "It hasn’t occurred to you that people really aren’t interested in hearing about your ‘private’ life, has it? "
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How would you phrase that thought?
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"maybe people are in too much of their own pain, so they can't see it. pain can often blind us to the pain of others. context is important. can you share more here? it is safe."
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That’s good. How would you phrase the request that you don’t want to know. ( It’s revealing that you assume it’s pain that causes the disinterest. If you have to work w/someone who’s imposing on your work relationship & takes your time to hear their ‘shit’ then that’s not pain. )
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it really depends on context, but I'd say something like "darling. i hear you. i *feel* you. this is important. this is heavy. if I wanted to really help with this I'd need to be in a place of strength, and I cannot help right now. have patience. i'll come back. i can find help"
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