You don't have to change which hat you're wearing, but you do have to change the position you're working from.
Here are 9 common positions to take in any interaction.
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the creative professional's struggle:
I have all of these great ideas but I don't know what to do next.
Here's how to turn that junk drawer into a toolbox.
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I love smart people with free time who make stuff.
And, if I'm being perfectly honest, I especially love smart people who didn't really have time to make stuff but did it anyway.
things to say to an ambitious child:
"You already know enough to try this out."
"You'll get there. Keep going."
"Be optimistic."
"Whenever someone tells you not to bother - don't listen, bother."
"It's your time, you get to figure out how you want to spend it."
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Remembering under-confident, confident, and over-confident run on a continuum can be helpful in course correcting from wherever we find ourselves in the moment.
Whatever keeps us on track and gets us back to trying again.
Labeling "imposter syndrome" can snap us out of being UNDER-confident.
Labeling "I'm the poster boy syndrome" can snap us out of being OVER-confident.
Confidence is a balancing act.
It's useful to know the term "imposter syndrome" so we can be OK with starting new things.
It comes in handy when starting, or doing hard things on the 2nd, 3rd, and 14,000th go-round.
Especially while wondering how "they" make it look so easy.
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Getting fired can be a kill shot OR a badge of honor (in the making).
The harrowing reality of the rejection in the moment -
- doesn’t have to be how you feel about it in a day, a year, or a decade.
It’s always a choice.
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"You no longer work for this firm."
I got that lovely piece of news just over five years ago.
To make matters worse, it occurred three days after my grandfather's funeral and ten days before my wedding.
As hard as it was to stomach, I learned some valuable lessons.
Let's do one final push here at year end to make sure everyone is clear on the new 1099 rules that affect Venmo, Paypal, Zelle, etc so everyone can be prepared for tax season. IMPORTANT INFO!
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my inner (future) teen is feeling the "this is how hard it is to make new, productive habits as a responsible adult" vibes in this song something extra
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But, like all things, we must use our powers for good.
So many well laden conversational patterns = so many opportunities to subtly shift towards the vibe we want to set all around us.
Like Seth’s idea, it’s a way to foster connection, just by being aware of a conversational pattern where you can add a quick plot twist in the direction you want things to go in.
Ps. Yes, there’s a media-trained dark side to this too.
In his story, when his client asked how his day was, he’d say, “I just got the most incredible referral from another client, you wouldn’t believe the story about the person I just met.”
This person said instead of answering “so how’s your day” with “good!” or “busy!” - he’d use a quick story he wanted the person asking to know about him.
I was listening to someone talk about generating referrals for their business, and they mentioned how our default responses in regular conversation are the easiest ones to hijack and improve the conversation.
If you often find yourself saying “sorry” in a way that doesn’t advance the conversation, it might be interesting to substitute “thank you” instead.
So, “I’m sorry this came out of the kitchen after your other dishes,” becomes, “thank you for waiting so patiently.”
I always found the pictures of turkeys dressed as pilgrims to be a very confused/mixed message.
also: colonial, cannibal, religious freedom vibes are very metal, so that's cool too
I don't know which one of you on here said this, but I've stolen it (and laugh at it every time I think of it)
"Oh I'm not spiritual, I'm religious."
brilliant.
to create a colorful mood board for a creative project... and then I realized I need to gear up first (because all I have are black pens, a super thick sharpie, and clear deodorant)
Kareem is the all-time leading NBA scorer with 38,387 points.
He scored ONE three-point shot in his entire career.
Take this as your reminder to keep doing what you're good at.