One of the reasons I know true compassion is incredibly rare is because I've never seen an opponent of the SJWs acknowledge the amount of pain and scars necessary to twist someone into an SJW.
I think the bigger problem is that SJW culture is designed to thwart any type of self improvement - it's memetic evolution. The more damaged you are, the more committed you are to the cause. All the competing cultures for damaged people had leaks that SJW doesn't.