Ppl be like "your poly relationship exploded because of the polyamory" but be like "my monog relationship exploded because we couldn't fully meet each others needs and one of us cheated but its definitely not the monogamy"
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Replying to @Aella_Girl
IMO, very strictly monogamous relationships often become socially closed off- you never see anyone else admiring or being attracted to you or your partner. This can make each person value their partner less and less over time, or make each person hungry for validation.
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Replying to @sentientist
Are saying value gradations are determined by external validation? Are we that blinkered?
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That's one major method women use to assess men. Women are unable to assess men on a bunch of traits because they are lower on those traits so they use evolutionary shortcuts and outsource the problem to other women. If other attractive women like him, he's attractive.
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