"oh no she's being nice to me anything but that" it's pure projection because of course women tend to feel the opposite of attraction to men who are nice. "if he likes me being nice to him then he is an idiot" <- logic from a woman who has no theory of mind
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Replying to @0x49fa98 @vers_laLune and
Someone once advised me to read the book “Why men love bitches” I didn’t read it and have no idea what to make of the advice (from an older, married woman). Is there such a thing as being too nice in a relationship?
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Replying to @margaritaevna95 @0x49fa98 and
In a relationship, it’s impossible two people will always agree. So a woman who pretends to always agree is not genuine. What makes a marriage work is two adults who say what they think politely but firmly, and a recognition that compromise is essential.
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Replying to @BradCLemley @margaritaevna95 and
Fuck compromise. Someone has to be in charge and the only way it works is if that's the man. That said, he'd be terrible at the job if he didn't take into account his wife's wishes but that's not "compromise".
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Replying to @CovfefeAnon @BradCLemley and
Do you think this is because women are almost always worse at making decisions than men, or because a committee of two is almost always worse at making decisions than a single leader? Or both?
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Replying to @yashkaf @CovfefeAnon and
Neither. Women are only capable of maintaining love for men who lead them, as I think the argumentation of some of the commenters above demonstrates
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I think this is broadly accurate but outside weirdo land it works best in practice when it functions more like a constitutional monarchy than a 24/7 bdsm thing
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Replying to @moveincircles @0x49fa98 and
also a mistake to conflate "leadership" with "fiat" It includes that, sometimes, but great leaders don't just command - they instill purpose, build loyalty, design incentives, gather opinions, secure consent To exercise fiat is to draw on the reserve you built thru leadership
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Replying to @moonbeamdreams_ @extradeadjcb and
Gentlemen are always pleased to explain complex things to you gals!
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Men love explaining things to women, women love hearing men explain things. It's a good test of his skill in passing on knowledge and experience to their potential children.
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