Women are on dating apps to date, because that's the normative place to do it now. Women want to date men too. The problem is that the demand for sex will always outstrip the demand for relationships.
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Replying to @kaschuta
>that's the normative place to do it now It didn't fall from the sky and it wasn't a force of nature. It became the the "normative place" because it catered to female desire better than any other venue - how could it be any other way? If it was worse, women wouldn't sign up.
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Replying to @CovfefeAnon
It catered to most people's desire as an extension to social media. People want "frictionless" everything. Most men hate cold approaches, so the free market swooped in. Liberalizing tech works this way in many areas of our lives.
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Replying to @kaschuta
It doesn't matter if "most men" hate cold approaches. If women are out there to be cold approached, they'll be cold approached and men will suck it up and do it. Men will go anywhere women are. Men hate clubs too.
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Replying to @CovfefeAnon
Yes, bargaining power shapes any market. I just think the people with the most bargaining power on these apps are still men.
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Replying to @kaschuta
Men have no bargaining power over the apps -if there's pussy on offer, men will flock to the app. Men don't even end up with what they want in the modern dating market anyway - they want exclusive possession of a number of hot women - they get shared access to multiple women
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Replying to @CovfefeAnon
Depends, having a rolling harem with the option of a relationship with pretty much any of these women is the highest leverage position in the power stack.
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Replying to @kaschuta
Disagree - it's actually pretty miserable The highest leverage position in the power stack is socially sanctioned marriage to multiple women The position below that as far as pure power goes is hot woman - b/c men will always fight over her Doesn't mean she gets what she wants
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Replying to @CovfefeAnon
My point is that these are tiered systems of leverage and that nobody really gets what they want. It's a defect/defect game theoretic nightmare. We probably just disagree on where the point of maximum leverage is.
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Replying to @kaschuta
I think we disagree on the solution and the source of the problem. The market + the internet will eat away at market friction so what you're seeing is full hypergamy unleashed because of the process I described above The only social solution is to restrain women's sexual choice
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No individual can break out but men are in a better position to improve over other men (no pussy to shared pussy). Women are all getting pretty much what they immediately want (high value men fighting over them) but it makes them miserable because none take ownership of her.
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