A lot of the time when talking about bad equilibria in dating, the discussion gets bogged down in “the women did this!” or “no, the men did!” The answer is less tribally satisfying, I think. This stuff is emergent from tech, economic, political and biological factors.
Women didn't want the sexual revolution but in the 50s there were tons of young women and a lot fewer older, attractive men and they all wanted a share of those men Those men said "screw it, women all want security - this'll be safe" - not realizing the changes that would result
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"Hey, my entire image of women is based on how they behave in a society that keeps tight restraints on the volcanic force of their sexual desire so I'll conclude they all want monogamy and marriage"
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