Waiting with blue balls is a costly signal that only commitment-ready men will pay.
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Replying to @RokoMijic @RokoMijicUK and
Her question wasn't "how do I find a man willing to commit to me?" - she would have no problem with that. Her question was "how do I get this one guy I'm hot for to fall for me?" - which is a very different question. Your answer is how to filter out men who won't commit.
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Replying to @RokoMijic @CovfefeAnon and
If he won't chase you and wait a month for the main event, then you (the woman) are trying to buy a man whose "price" is greater than what you can afford, or who is just screwing around for fun.
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Replying to @RokoMijic @RokoMijicUK and
Look, you think rock stars end up married to women who they had to take out on 10 dates or on women they connected with after sex in the first 10 minutes? Sure, sex in 10 minutes means a high chance of being thrown away but it's also the only way end up with a high value man.
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Replying to @CovfefeAnon @RokoMijicUK and
do you think having sex w/ a rock star in the first 10 mins raises or lowers a woman's expected husband quality? probability of marrying w/in N years? (i would say lower, lower and it's not even particularly close)
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Replying to @QuasLacrimas @RokoMijicUK and
Depends on a lot of factors about the woman but it certainly raises the ceiling for husband quality. Playing it safe as a woman means eventually marrying a man she's not attracted to because her ability to have explosion with less than top man is worn away by years of tinder
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Replying to @CovfefeAnon @RokoMijicUK and
yeah raising max possible value of x while hammering E(x) is typical female and migr behavior but not advice i'd give to a sister or a daughter
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Replying to @QuasLacrimas @RokoMijicUK and
Very bizarre that we think of shooting for the max ev and courting disaster as typical feminine behavior rather than that being the exemplar of masculine behavior, isn't it?
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Replying to @CovfefeAnon @RokoMijicUK and
sort of, but there are probably heuristics hard-coded into the behavior routine that assume anyone who has a dunbar slot is one of her 200 closest neighbors
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The hard-coded behavioral routines are totally broken for women in modern times - very low probability of producing the genetically preferred outcome.
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Replying to @CovfefeAnon @QuasLacrimas and
In short, no, but plenty of us will feel free to hyperanalyze the underlying sociobiological factors
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