any advice to get a guy to fall in love with me?
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Yes, to some extent this is true but think of a man as a predator who enjoys the chase. Predators want to catch the thing but they also want to be in the process of catching the thing. And "how long did the chase last" is something that has a deep-seated emotional impact.
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Tremendous disagree that any good women put out on the first date lmao. Women lay out their entire psychology in romance novels, it's all right there for the taking, yet it's just entirely ignored
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Natural and normal and dangerous and usually bad The cultural/old "No sex until marriage" is the Chesterton's fence you need to explain These all seem like very modernist solutions which should send huge alarm bells because moderns are *awful* at love by every meaningful metric
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I don't think it was a Chesterton's fence because did know why it was there - or at least enough people did - and the catastrophic consequences were predicted in advance. When deciding what to do now though wishing we lived in a different society doesn't make it so.
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