"So what if we just pretended that girls don't have sexual urges at young ages and enforced our collective fantasy by destroying anyone who points out evidence against it?" The problem is uncontrolled women; not the people who notice this and point it out https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus/status/1252382560908226562 …
The "so what" is indeed my description of the present. If you tried to tell that guy that the reason girls snuck out to parties was precisely so that what happens there happens people would be outraged; not at the behavior but at you for stating it.