You can break it out into a matrix for looking at reactions to mechanical, practiced charm because it has different meanings for each of the possible pairs.
This is one of the cases where you absolutely can't say "people" b/c there's a massive divide by sex *Women* don't like the idea that a man has developed learned charm because she is relying on instinctive social tests to assess mate quality and doesn't have any easy alternative
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I think there's truth to this when it comes to charm/flirting/dating, but there are other areas as well. People don't like it when something feels "fake" even if the criteria for being genuine are really wobbly.
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