This is a solved problem where the answer is stamped on our genes High IQ women can only reproduce if they feel that they're securely owned. This is needed because to ensure cooperation in the multi-period game that is child rearing - otherwise defect / defect is the equilibrium
Example that popped up on my twitter timeline today. Women desire ownership so much that they'll happily brand themselves. https://twitter.com/HeaddieG/status/1176498704397684736 …